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New person here with a problem

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Doctorlysomethn, Oct 30, 2014.

  1. Doctorlysomethn

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    Hi everyone

    I've just made an account today and I need your help with something so if you could please help, that'd be amazing, thank you so much <3

    You see... I'm bi, in this relationship with this guy and I don't know how to tell my friends that I'm in it with him

    I've told a few of my closest friends, but it's my other friends that I'm worried about and don't really know how to tell them so if you could please help me out, that'd be fantastic

    Thanks in advance to everyone who's happy to help out, it really means a lot to me and I'll keep you all updated on how it goes
     
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    Tell the ones who you tbink will take it best then move down. They will stick with you, if you're honest with them. Some people can't handle it, that is just a risk you have to be willing to take
     
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    Thanks Zygnomic

    I hope they accept me for who I am and who I like is technically my business, right? If they are seriously my friend, they shouldn't care who I like whether it's a girl or a guy, but more who I am personally as I'm still the same guy, but just swing that different way to them :slight_smile:

    Thanks a lot for the help :slight_smile:

    I'll try to keep you updated with it as it goes along :slight_smile:
     
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    Exactly! And please do, good luck :slight_smile: im sure it'll be great
     
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    Thanks Zygnomic for your help and support and I come bringing updated news on how it all went :slight_smile:

    My friends were all very accepting of my news, a few of them actually did the opposite of what I expected them to do and ended up clapping, saying "Omg yay! You two would so make the cutest couple" and my one closest girl friend even going as far as "I'm gonna be the best man at your wedding" <3

    Thank you Zygnomic for your help and support and it really did mean a lot to me <3
    You are so awesome for helping me out like that :grin:
     
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    Yay, im glad to hear that. That's fantastic, haha!