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What do I do about my Crush who may or may not be gay

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by anonymous cat, Nov 3, 2014.

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  1. anonymous cat

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    Hello my name is TJ and this is my first post. I am 14, live in Texas, either gay or bi and I am a freshman. I have not come out to anyone except my best friend who is a lesbian.
    I’m in love with this guy but we go to different schools so I am constantly trying to see him. I miss him so much (He has told me multiple times that he’s bi but he flip flops) and I can’t tell what his sexual orientation is. I have stayed up on multiple nights thinking, crying, and deciding on what i should do. The problem is that I can’t tell if he likes me and if he’s gay/bi. He has texted me before i left to a different school "I love you and I’m gonna miss you" I told him basically the same be I don’t know for sure. I plan on spending time with him on Friday of this week but I don’t know if he can. I miss him so much and so this is the last place I have to go.

    Please help! :icon_sad::help: - TJ
     
    #1 anonymous cat, Nov 3, 2014
  2. resu

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    Just keep talking to him. Obviously you two are very open with each other, so just say you really like him but you don't know if it's love. Honesty is the best policy. Good luck! It's great that two boys can be so close in Texas of all places. I hope to see in the near future a time when such things aren't a big deal, just another teenage romance no matter what gender the two people are. :slight_smile:
     
    #2 resu, Nov 4, 2014
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