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getting over someone who is constantly around

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by SPE53, Nov 12, 2014.

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  1. SPE53

    SPE53
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    I need advice on how to coexist with a guy who broke up with me. I am still in love with him and we are involved in many of the same organizations so he'll constantly be around. How can I get over him and be around him?
     
    #1 SPE53, Nov 12, 2014
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    Will probably get shot at by someone, for saying this... but.

    Hate is a powerful emotion that you can substitute your love with. And it comes easy, seeing as how he broke up with you. Turn cynical, stop caring for him and eat a ton of ice cream.

    Just allow yourself to be angry at the situation and project this anger towards him. It's not right, and it makes you a terrible person... but, it does work.

    Alternatively, the safer way to deal with it, is to find someone new to obsess over. At the very least, a hobby? Also, again... ice cream!

    Just FYI, i've found that Oreo ice cream is the best, since, the slight bitterness bundled with the somewhat sweet vanilla, is just... it just works, don't question!
     
    #2 shinji, Nov 12, 2014
  3. darth vader

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    i guess you need to get away somehow so your romantic feelings for him would subside.. is it possible for you to do that?
     
    #3 darth vader, Nov 12, 2014
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