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We've been so distant

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by HeavyHeart, Nov 22, 2014.

  1. HeavyHeart

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    The last few months I've felt like my partner and I have been so distant. We've fought about some significant things lately, but have come to an understanding (at least, so I think). I have a hard time connecting with her because of my lack of trust. She's lied to me (or omitted the truth, as she would probably say) a few times now, and my trust is not easily earned to begin with. How can I re-establish that connection with her? She seems so distant most of the time, and its so hard for me to open up. I just don't know how to get close again. Anybody else struggled with reconnection??:icon_redf
     
  2. jay777

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    Well what do you think if you would sit down with her and really describe your feelings ?