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is it too soon?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by poetofdarkness, Dec 4, 2014.

  1. poetofdarkness

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    Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 18 days and we've already said "i love you", do you think that this is too soon? I genuinely know in my heart that I love her and when I look into her eyes I know that she loves me to, but do you guys think that it is too soon or is it ok to fall for someone this fast?
     
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    Love is a strange thing. It's different for everyone. It's hard to even define it.

    For me personally, it's something that takes time to grow. There were a lot of times when I was younger that I could have sworn I was in love, but in fact I wasn't. So it's a tricky one to answer.

    However, there's no way I'm going to rain on your parade. If you feel like you're in love - good for you! People wait all their lives for that feeling. Stop worrying about it and go enjoy it. :slight_smile:
     
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    Thanks for your answer and believe me, I am enjoying it, she is the best thing that's ever happened to me.
     
  4. I guess if you know something/feel that something is true, it's never too soon. Besides, those are just words, what really matters is how you feel... And last time I checked, love doesn't care if it's "too soon" :slight_smile: