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I'm going to tell my dad, and I'm really nervous

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by wolfheartmoon, Dec 7, 2014.

  1. wolfheartmoon

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    Logically, I don't think anything bad would happen.
    In fact, just today he went with me and helped me get mens clothes (including guessing correctly what size jeans I would wear in men's). So now I've got like three mens shirts, and a pair of jeans, and I already told him I was going to donate all my "girly" clothes. So I don't think it'll be a huge shock to him at this point.
    But can I get some positive energy my way?
    I'm irrationally scared and nervous.
     
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    Hey! :slight_smile: I hope it goes well for you. Everyone here has or will probably be in your shoes at some point in their lives! You're not alone, I think you're awesome for being brave.
     
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    if he doesnt accept you others already have or will, its important to have that acceptance from a parent but its your life, you're on the journey alone in the end, it will go well either way
     
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    "well your mom and I knew that all along, you always were more of a boy"
    *starts laughing hysterically*

    ---------- Post added 7th Dec 2014 at 08:27 PM ----------

    I came out to my family via Facebook, they're just rolling with it omg.
    *squeals*
    So. Much. Relief.
     
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    AWESOME!

    Congrats, enjoy your new found freedom :grin:
     
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    Oh man, that's amazing. Congratulations dude! :icon_bigg