So I've got this friend who over the summer broke up with his bf (who was also a good friend if mine) and it ended pretty badly. His boyfriend ended up not talking to any of the people in out group and my friend felt responsible. Anyway fast-forward a couple of months and I ended up have a '1 night thing' with my friend as he called. I was annoyed nothing more could come out of it but let it go. Anyway over the weekend bit happened again and I even asked him what he wanted from it and if he was sure he wanted to go through with it. He said he did and that he just wanted a casual thing now and then. Do I texts him the next day what he wanted to do about it and he said that else should just leave it at that. To which I said are you going to end up changing your mind again like last time. To which he said if I do you'll stop me. I said I didn't want to be responsible for that and that he should try to either control his emotions or just live and let live. I haven't spoken to him since. What should I do / expect to happen?
Could be a friends with benefits type of relationship if you can emotionally handle that? But be careful, if your interested in something more, that might not be a good idea.
He is worried about doing it again as it could end badly. But he said that last time and I'm 99% sure he would end up doing it again. I can handle the situation as all I want to do is make him happy. I'm just not sure how I can help him
