Hello, I am new here and I would like to ask for some adive in something I need help with. I'M IN A LONG DISTANTENT RELASTIONSHIP AND ITS GETTING A LITTLE TO MUCH NOT BEING ABLE TO SEE THE MAN WHO I LOVE SO MUCH!!! HELP WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!!:tears:
These kind of relationships can be great if you are limited in what is out there but on the other hand can be stressful. The questions on why is he not calling or texting or when will I ever see him can be extremely hard. My question would be is it healthy for you. Is the anticipation and the anxiety over this kind of relationship worth it. If it is too much to handle I would find other interests or even see if there are gay men in your area. LTR relationships while they did not last they worked for me cause I lived in a small city. It depends on each person if they can handle the stress this kind of relationship can build and it may not be your thing.
well there is something you and I share in commen you and I both live or lived in a small town! and I don't think its really worth it but I don't really know what else to do to be honest. also thank you everyone to helped me!
My roommate a few years back was in a really toxic LDR with her girlfriend. She ended up sobbing every night. I think if a relationship evokes more negative than positive it might be time for change, weather that means getting Skype, closing the distance, or breaking things off. My view on LDRs is probably skewed because of my experience, but please look after yourself! Maybe something cheesy like handwritten letters could provide a fun way of staying in touch?
Yeah it would if I didnt always get the feeling that ... im more commited into our relastionship than he or maybe its she, ill exsplane more later, but I feel like he/she dosnt care. now about the whole he she thing, well hes a transgender and well idk what to do about our relastionship after he comes a girl. thas another thing I need help with.
Long distance relationships almost always end up bad, HOWEVER I know a few people who have met the love of their lives by enduring the long distance status. The real question is do you love him? If you don't, then it's not worth trying, but you should fight for those you love even if that's distance. After all anyone can overcome distance. Best of Luck!
I would recommend visiting the Gender Identity/expression forum to learn more about what it means to be transgender and what sort of things your partner may be going through. If your partner identifies as female, then try using female pronouns, or whichever pronouns are preferred, in conversation.
no uh because I am one hundred percent gay and I really don't want to hurt her by saying, something that would come off wrong sorry if I made everyone worrie for no reason.
No worries! It sounds like you love them very much! Have you been able to express these concerns to them? I'd think it would be difficult to talk often in an LDR?
... tbh not really a lot of the time shes asleep cuz she works 3rd shift. But were seeing each other in a week so yayyyy!
