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Should I go on a date with this girl? (I'm a hot mess)

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by dayday4, Dec 15, 2014.

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  1. dayday4

    dayday4
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    So we met at a party and she was very forward and I was alittle drunk but it was nice. I liked her, I thought she was cute, but she's more butch than I am and she's very out. Now, I'm bi, and I have a thing for my male friend. Anyway she asked me out on a date and I said I would go but I'm not completely sure I should.
    I mean, she's my friends friend, she's been with girls before and I havent and I don't want to disappoint her, my parents don't know I'm bi and, I don't know, she's looking for long term and I want to experience life at college. She's 19 and I'm approaching 18 and I don't know I feel like it could be fantastic, but I also don't want to go on a date with her because I et anxious driving my dad to fucking work it's just too much anxiety for me.
    Any advice?
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    #1 dayday4, Dec 15, 2014
  2. Haim

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    Could you tell her you'd prefer to get to know her as friends for now, as you are having some personal issues making you unavailable for dating? Takes the pressure off you a little and you can get to know her a bit better before making any sort of commitment.
     
    #2 Haim, Dec 15, 2014
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