I thought this was a really, really good article/5 minute presentation by Dan Savage in relation to a question about settling, compromise and acceptance of someone you love. watch the clip: The Price of Admission: Dan Savage on the Myth of “The One” and the Unsettling Secret of Lasting Love | Brain Pickings
thanks! I love Dan Savage. He's a great author. And I love to read his advice column on line. Funny, and good advice. Good stuff!!!