theres this guy in my school who's fully out as gay and he is super hot and i really want to ask him out but I'm not out and i really don't know what to do i really like him
Message him on facebook? That's what I do when I want to talk to a guy. Otherwise I just straight up ask if they wanna hang out. Good luck!
I think it shows guts and respect if you ask him face to face ( no disrespect to those who don't ) But remember just relax and act calm