Ex Girlfriend Dating my Best Friend

Most likely, she's not "dating" your friend. She's rebounding. She was officially single for more than 5 minutes. Have a heart, dude!

But yeah, *hugs*.
Tell me more.

---------- Post added 16th Jan 2015 at 04:03 AM ----------

Like they say, if you love someone, set them free.

It would probably be more tactful if you didn't have to know about the rebound, but people live and learn. What kind of age range are we talking about?

 

I feel like this happens a lot in the lesbian world... like the poster above said, probably just a rebound thing. Unless she dumped you to date your friend, then ouch.

Who are you more upset with? Your ex? Or your best friend? Or both, but different?

Hang in there. (*hug*) It's tough to be really upset about something you feel like you should just be cool with, but remember you can't control your feelings, only your actions.

 

An ex dating a friend is always a no-no. If you feel angry with them, be angry. Talk to your friend, tell her that you're not okay with what they're doing, and try to find out if it's just a fling/rebound or if they want it to be something more.

 

she isnt your best friend if she is doing that.
have you spoken to your friend what has she said about it?

 

I agree.

I remember how my first girlfriend back when I was 13 broke up with me soon after she just met my best friend and within the hour she had asked him to a movie. My friend refused and it really made me feel better after the breakup and there's a reason he remains my best friend today.