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Do you ever sexually fantasize about your friends?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by mapleluv, Jan 18, 2015.

  1. mapleluv

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    Or am I the only one who does this? :icon_redf
     
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    I'm sure a lot of people do. I actually try not to though. When I was younger I realized it's very difficult for me to sexually fantasize about someone and still act normally around them.
     
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    I do. Still do but I keep reminding myself we are just friends and it will never be anything more.
     
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    I do it all the time... even right now
     
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    I do it all the time....but it sure doesn't help me feel any better knowing nothing is ever going to happen with any of them
     
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    Sometimes it's fantasizing, yes, but often it's what's called in psychology "intrusive thoughts" or something like that. Not always pleasant.

    But sometimes...
     
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    Yeah i do a lot, about a few close mates, its so annoying as know nothing will ever happen but cant seem to help my self.
     
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    Never do that...once we become friends they are like brothers or sisters to me...only time it happened was when I developed feelings for a friend of mine but that was the only time in my life.
     
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    Yes. Although I try not to! 99% of my friends are just my friends, and fantasising about them would be eew, almost as though they were my brother or sister. But then there's that 1% who, for whatever reason, are not completely in that friend zone. I would never tell them though, especially if they were straight!
     
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    What? Me? What are you talking about? That would be ridiculous! Eheheh... *looks away blushing heavily*
     
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    Oh honey, I think most of us (including straight people) fantasize at least a little about our friends!
    And with that said, I can go as far as saying that its perfectly normal ^_^
    Hell, Im fantasizing right this second about my friend cheesecake and mr.smoothie (these are foods not some weird nicknames I gave my friends....)
     
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    well I'm straight-ish. I have had 5 gay experiences. all of which with people that didn't care about me and only wanted a nut. 4 with one guy and I sucked a guy off because he showed me his big beautiful cock and I just sucked it without thinking.

    I have a friend though that is a beautiful male model that I know wants to fuck me. I have known him for 4 years and every now and then he grabs my ass or tries to come onto me. I always feel uncomfortable and try to make him stop but I can hardly finish writing this without fantasizing about him. we already tell each other that we love each other.
     
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    I think everyone has at least once, haven't they? :confused:... Don't feel embarrassed/worried about it, alot of people do, it's just that no one admits it, I mean if they did it would be very awkward lol.
     
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    No, for whatever reason, no matter how pretty I've thought my friends have been, my mind just doesn't go there.
    I would say it's quite normal, though. ^^
     
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    I used to and it turned into the first time i experimented with a guy and then he was straight and I was gay. So it makes things awkward if you act on those fantasies.
     
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    I dont fantasize about the close friends, they are like brothers, so eww.
    Non best friends though, all the times ^^
     
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    I do fantasize about one of my friends. He's catholic (but accepting of LGBT) and totally straight though so nothing could ever happen, but he has one hell of a body :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: He's a swimmer and I just love that lean muscle!

    I HAD another friend that I fantasized about a lot and still do in fact. He was a coworker at my first job this summer. I had a huge crush on him even before I knew I was gay. Once he told me he was gay I just fell deeper in love with him. That crush was actually the main driver towards discovering my sexuality. Sadly he never knew I was gay because at the time I hadn't even admitted to myself. He was the closest to perfect I've ever seen. But he left to college in college and started ignoring me... I'm still not over it.
     
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    Yes, I had a crush on all 3 of my friends who are girls, but I realized that it was more admiration for how they care about me than anything that could turn sexual. One I did fantasize about.
     
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    All the time...