How do you accept being disowned or pushed away?

You might have a look here:
emptyclosets.com/forum/coming-out-advice/166155-frustrated.html#3

Its your choice what you say, you know the persons involved best.

You might do a bit more of background research... there are brochures with possible reactions, and reasonings by people...
and you might simply ask a few relatives you trust and who would help you what her reasons might be...
If they have a problem with you for a longer time maybe its time to have a nice dinner together, a glass of wine (one or two... not more ) and talk really deeply what moves you... not making reproaches but talking about your feelings...
You might have a look here:
How to Practice Nonviolent Communication: 4 Steps (with Pictures)
It might take some practice...

Its often difficult to guess how people react, especially from outside, so its really up to you what you say....

wishing you a family reunion
(*hug*)

 

Have you tried to ask another relative to mediate a meeting, so you could speak in private ?
Thats what I would do, at least.

This would infer you are not on best terms for quite a while.
I personally would try to arrange a meeting.
What is the opinion of your parents, they seem to communicate ?

 

There are many ways to deal with it. I can only tell what I would do...
As said, its entirey your choice.


- I would arrange a meeting person to person or maybe on skype and would really talk about things I feel would stand between us .

- if thats not possible I would write a letter, giving it to the parents for example to deliver it with the pledge to read it. I would state in the letter that being gay is not a choice, and other things that move me.

- concerning how to deal with it, here is a PFLG brochure:
IF PARENTS ARE REJECTING
Some parents are rejecting for years, but
then come around. Give them things to
read, send greeting cards, reassure them
of your love, and tell them of your
successes. You can’t force them; it’s not
your fault if THEY can’t handle it. If
you once had a good relationship,
chances are you will again.
That’s why we caution gay, lesbian and
bisexual youth not to come out to family
until they have an alternate support group.
There’s no real substitute for
your family of origin, but you CAN live
without them, even have a full and very
happy life.
Let this tough experience make you wiser,
gentler, more loving, not bitter, distrusting,
and cynical. Let it not have been in vain.

 

You might think supervised support groups, maybe with your local lgbt center...
and you might think about counseling...

 

I am sorry you are having to deal with this, I completely understand the frustration when someone would just rather ignore you than work through a problem together. It sounds like your sisters are the ones in the wrong, and it is just something they are gonna have to deal with themselves. As for you just realize that you have done nothing wrong and if your sisters love you enough, they will eventually come around and accept you.

I do truly hope things get better between you and your sisters, but in the meantime don't let yourself get down about it. (*hug*)

 

You could send an email... Thye might not respond... But they would probably read it, at least out of curiosity.

 

It has never happened to me before but it scares me to be rejected in such case nonetheless. I want to be, y'know, accepted as I am. Quirks, flaws, and all. But knowing I am good at heart, I think I am on the safe side. Though a blindside is always just as possible.