I'm kinda "twinkie" but attracted to masculine?

It's perfectly normal to be attracted to a certain 'type', and that type may, quite reasonably be the polar opposite to ourselves. So, to answer your question, some bears are attracted to twinks and vice versa. It's also true that over time our attractions may change (I know mine have).

The thing that's somewhat concerning about your posting is your stated desire to be protected by a bigger/older guy, almost living out that daddy & son/bear v twink scenario. I'm afraid that's not the basis for a healthy, equitable relationship where you are loved, valued and respected. When you introduce these role scenarios into a relationship they are seldom left in the bedroom. More often than not they spill over with negative consequences for both partners, most especially the younger partner.

It's not so much your attraction to masculinity that I'm questioning, it's the actual dynamic of the relationship you're aspiring to. Think about it very carefully. The best relationships always have a good measure of equality.. and love.

I don't mean any of this in a preachy or condescending way, but there are lots of young gay people who aspire to relationships that have a very unhealthy feel to them and they often end up getting hurt. I'd rather not see young gay people getting hurt when life is hard enough for them.

 

I am just a couple years older than you and let me say that I feel exactly the same, and that you will definitely find someone that fits your tastes, but I have to urge that you don't pursue a relationship with an adult before you're 18, or whatever the age of consent is in your area.

I don't necessarily disagree with what Patrick is saying, and I don't have a whole lot of experience, but your attraction is totally okay to have.

 

I'm quite masculine & I prefer twinkier guys. Many people have a "type." One of my best friends is a "twink" and prefers beefier, masculine guys. To each his own. Sometimes you're just into what you're into.

 

Sounds like you might be a bdsm submissive in the making. It's another world, check it out.

 

I like twinkier boys myself. I never dated a cute guy tho, well not even a guy in person. Most of my relationship are online.

 

Twinks are cute and adorable. Love that their the submissive ones and make their partner feel needed and important. I'm very independent and "masculine" so I love someone that appreciates that. Their often really sensitive and I love that n all types of people.
I used to be like you and shared the same types and even fantasies. Masculine and effeminate guys attract me equally now. The "rape" thing might be your submissiveness, but also the fact that you want to be desired so powerfully, that someone can't resist you and lose control over their urges. In a way you are their relief and that feels "good" since you want to be controlled or feel needed. Had these types of fantasies when I was twinkier lol. My muscles burst me out the twink label.

 

Any kind of attraction to any type should be considered normal.

Me ? I prefer twink types, i like to be the provider, the stronger one in the relationship i think it depends how you are in bed also, I am extremely dominant in bed so my type would be someone less dominant than me

Although again i think it comes with age, and through actual experiences you may actually experience it and think "Hmm not my thing"

But whatever you are attracted to is completely normal and you shouldn't feel worried about it.