It's my second anniversary with my gender fluid girlfriend who I just call my lover, because it fits her perfectly. We have known each other since 1st grade and I always had feeling for her, but didn't start dating till Christmas when I accepted myself. Anyways, I want to get her a promise ring to let her know I am going to be there for her and I love her always. Is the second month to early? This here is a definition of a promise ring on this site: http://engagementrings.lovetoknow.com/wiki/Promise_Ring_Meaning Should I wait?
Well a promise ring marks a major commitment, but seeing how you have had feelings for her for so long it seems that you might be ready. However, I would suggest that the ring not mark just romantic love, but just love in general.
Your question seems to implicate your not quite sure yet... what about giving it a bit more time... and what about using Valentine's day as opportunity ?