I just found out my husband of 8 years has been cheating on me. I am so hurt. I hurt just as bad as when my parents died. I don't know how to deal with this. Please help.
I'm so sorry. It's a hard situation. There isn't anything I can say to make it better. I just wanted to send you a virtual hug.
You might want to talk to someone... maybe a friend... if you want to talk to someone in person, you might call here: GLBT National Help Center Sending you hugs...(*hug*)(&&&)
It does hurt as much as a death. In many ways, it is a death. look at the cycle of grief for some idea of what your emotions are going through. and find some friends to support you through this. this is a pain that is best not handled alone. (&&&)
ohhhhh.. hugs from me too (*hug*) i don't even have an idea how it feels.. just know we're here with you.. wildside is right, this is best not handled alone (*hug*)
When you've been hurt so badly you need to give yourself time and space to work through your feelings and it's best if you don't make any decisions in haste. You may want to work through this (if possible), or maybe not? Either way, give yourself as much time as you need to make the decision that is right for you. If your relationship can be salvaged, it might be best to arrange some sessions with a relationship/couple counsellor. Talk to people and share your feelings, but do what is right for you.
I'm so sorry you're going through such a difficult time. I've never been through anything similar and can't possibly imagine the range of emotions you must be feeling right now. my thoughts are with you.
Talk to someone. Hugs for you okay?(*hug*) I know this is hard but stay strong! just give me the cue and I will castrate your husband.
