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Fallen for an asexual

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Anonymous, Feb 15, 2015.

  1. Anonymous

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    Oh god what did i do....

    I have fallen head over heels for this girl. She's funny and smart and we have alot of the same interests... only she's a panromantic asexual. I think she likes me back and we've been flirting forever it's just i feel like this poses an issue in any relationship we could ever pursue. I honestly don't even know what to do with myself right now plz help.
     
  2. sslen

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    Just because she is asexual doesnt mean you can't have a relationship with her. If you are looking for an eventual sexual relationship then it may pose some issues. But even asexuals participate in sex from time to time. I myself am also asexual but if I found the right woman and loved her with everything that I was then to make her happy and feel wanted or satisfied then I would more than likely become intimate with her because I like seeing her happy. It only poses an issue if you allow it to, be open with her and I'm sure everything will work out wonderfully!
     
  3. jay777

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    You might have a look here:
    http://emptyclosets.com/forum/sexua...how-can-i-supportive-my-asexual-sister.html#3

    You could have a look at this:
    Being a Trans* guy and sex

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