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Is He For Me? Or Does He Need Time?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Unrequited1ove, Feb 17, 2015.

  1. Unrequited1ove

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    okay so i met this amazing guy a couple of months ago, and we became friends very fast
    like almost instant so he does alot of things that confuse me the jokes he makes and the way he plays with me
    He told me he had a wet dream about me and he woke up with cum in his underwear but then said he had to wake him self up cause he wasnt sure why he was having those feelings
    he told me in middle school he was curious
    he has never had sex with a guy (so i guess) only women and he currently has a girlfriend
    we have been friends thru 2 of his girlfriends and in every relationship he is is in he makes me feel as if he likes me
    one night i was texting him adn asked him "why dont you got after who you really want?"
    his reply "idk bro you cant provide me pussy so im gonna stay single"
    i asked "are you saying if i was a girl it would be me"
    he laughed and said "bro can we talk about this someother time" we never did
    we were fighting one day andhe licked my neck
    he has even tackled me while i was drunk and told me "ive been waiting a long time for this" and made me feel he was gonna rape me
    and eve nthe other day he did the same but went even further and actually started humping me
    im 17 and he is 16 and he is the start and end of my day even though he has a new girlfriend i can help but be madly in a crush on him
    i just cant tell if he likes me theres much more stuff i can say he did
    but i will just say that for now
    what do you guys think is he gay or bi , do you think he likes me?
    i have not told him im gay but i do make gay jokes in return at him(but not as aggressive as his)
    and he actually honestly believes im straight even though everyone else doesnt


    i told him i liked him in the beginning for like a day which he knew was complete BS, so now i told him i liked him for a good month he believed but even i know ive liked him since the first day i met him.

    but here is where i was confused after telling him he starting saying smiling and laughing saying " i knew it wasnt just for a day" he was really more focused on how i lied about the length of the crush, then i told him not to laugh at me and he replied "no im glad you told me were gonna have a great future" but before i could say what do you mean we were getting in the car and im not trying to have his whole family know i like his so we never got back into it

    now fastfoward to last night i get a text saying he wanted to put a break on our friendship because his girlfriend hates me and plus she knows that i want him and i think she believes i could possibly take him from her.

    then this morning he apologizes and explains to me why he feels like this, so he pretty much wants to hide me from her lol, even though ive been his best friend since like september she being his girlfriend for like a month if that

    but now im so confused cause he still wants to hang out and do things together just without her knowing, i feel like a sidepiece lol which we have joked about me being

    he doesnt play as gay with me as he use to now that he knows, but honestly i dont think its my fault we dont do that anymore i think the fact that he cant sit his phone down without her texting him wondering what he is doing and who he is with
    since i told him he doesnt really want to be with her anymore, but he hasnt told me he likes me so i kinda feel like he is just holding on to make it seem like he didnt just dump her for me, though he hasnt said it i cant help but feel he feels the same