Hi all me and my boyfriend have been together since November 22nd 2013 and while we do keep in contact with each other our relationship tends to get strained due to the following reasons. 1. No privacy due to us still living with family members that thinks being gay's the worst thing ever. 2. Jobs or school that gets in the way meaning no time to spend on dates and in a hotel room. There's always something in the way and I'm afraid that's tainting our relationship. Has anyone been in my shoes before and if so was there a way to deal with this so called "distant" relationship?