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how to approach him

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Andstillimhere7, Feb 19, 2015.

  1. Andstillimhere7

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    Location:
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    Gender:
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    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    All but family
    So there is this cute guy who actually came and talked to me and we actually talked, except the fact that he was being arbitrary, and so we talked. I wanted to ask if he was gay, but I froze and continued to a different topic. What are question (indirect or direct) to ask if he's gay and also asking him on a date.

    Yes he knows I'm gay
     
  2. Giovannie

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    Hmm. I tried these with my crush when I wanted to know. Happens to be straight, lol. You could pop these into the conversation randomly.

    "Hey just a random question, do you have a gf?"
    "Lol, that's pretty funny. I am sure you gf is never bored with you" - he could end up saying I don't have a gf or yh that's true
    "What do you look for in a person you want to end up with?" - if he uses 'they'. There is a possibility he is trying to hide the gender.

    If you are feeling really brave. Just ask him if he is gay.

    If he is. Don't ask him out straight up. Talk to him more and then you can ask him unless he has a bf already.