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Boyfriend trying to make me jealous?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by amoore658, Mar 3, 2015.

  1. amoore658

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    Well, I'm sure this question has been asked on here plenty of times, but I haven't looked. But this guy I've been in a relationship with now, for about 2 months, keeps on trying to make me jealous:

    * Makes irritating comments about his exes - one time in bed, he even began comparing my dick to one of his exes??

    * He has a child. But he has made comments like "the boys love it" (love the fact he's a dad?) But he bangs on about being a dad so much! Seriously - most people out there are parents!!

    * When I make similar comments, he becomes angry and tells me he doesn't like it.

    Idk - should I just end it with him, or..?
    ???:bang:
     
  2. Section18

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    Tell him to stop being a cunt.
     
  3. Spartan 117

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    Err... well that's one way of putting it. :lol:

    Honestly, it does sound like he's being a little insensitive to your feelings. I'd sit him down and have an honest conversation with him about how these little comments make you feel. There is a chance that he's just ignorant about how what he's saying upsets you.

    It's worth a shot, before you consider 'ending it', right? :slight_smile:
     
  4. Coffee Guy

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    If he is intentionally hurting your feelings, or trying to make you feel inferior, dump him. People who enjoy hurting you will never change. I have had this relationship with straight guys (who didn't know I was gay) and tried to make them stop hurting me and be my friend, it never works.