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being with someone for the first time

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by tr0la, Mar 15, 2015.

  1. tr0la

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    hyia, so I'm really really into this guy at uni who is into me too. we are going to the cinema in a few days. thing is he's broken up recently, from a long relationship, with a boy and hes a year older, so hes got a lot more experience than me. ive only hooked up once with a boy, few weeks ago and im not sure what to think of it lol. i sort of fear that im going to dp something wrong or that its just awkward or he doesnt like it, idk, i just feel very insecire and could use some advice
     
  2. Cesar123

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    Things don't always have to be about sex! Have fun at the movie theatre and if he makes a move for it than be honest and tell him of your relatively low experience. Personally, if I like a guy and want to get to know him, how he is in bed is the least of my concerns ( actually I kinda find it cute dating guys with low experience! ). Don't stress about it! Sex isn't anything like what you see in porn! Relax and enjoy the date, and if it leads to sex than tell him and do it if you feel comfortable ( and remember to use a condom...)