My first boyfriend, and having questions

Hey everyone, haven't posted in a while or updated my profile. Well I am out to basically everyone I know at this point. Well I started dating this guy since last Friday. We've seen each other pretty much every day since then and it's been an amazing experience for both of us! I've been incredibly happy so far. Well we planned for him to come over yesterday and get really physical with our relationship, but when that time came, I couldn't perform. I don't know if it was because I was worn out from my crazy work
week, if I wasn't ready to go that far, or if that he is basically a bottom and that's my preference as well. I really like this guy and it's the closest thing I've had to a relationship in 5 years.probably longer because everything before that was with women. I normally also masturbate daily, but I haven't since I've been seeing this guy. I didn't really get hard last night but I really enjoyed what we did do, which was a lot of making out and such. I haven't masturbated today either which is surprising. Any helpful input would be appreciated. I can answer questions as well. Thanks