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Will I ever be able to find someone?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by sporn, Mar 26, 2015.

  1. sporn

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    I don't think I ever will. I'm confused as fuck and no girl wants to date someone who's confused. Only horny guys want to. I hate my sexuality so much. I just want to be gay, but I keep feeling like I might be bi. I don't want to be bi because it's obvious I don't like guys as much as all the other girls.
     
  2. dopplershift94

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    Why is it important that you have choose one gender or the other? I'm bisexual, and I accepted it. When you fall in love with someone, fall in love, don't let their gender stop you.
    Trust me, let it happen, and you'll be fine. :slight_smile:
     
  3. sporn

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    I just don't know if I'm gay or bi. I tried coming out as bi, but people were clearly pressuring me to date men. I just wish I could be gay and date girls. I'm terrified of coming out as gay and actually being bi. I don't think its possible to date girls if I'm not out.
     
  4. itsmary

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    Just don't label yourself... If you prefer girls, tell them... I prefer not to label myself until I have cleared my feelings up... I love girls but sometimes I'm attracted to men. I know that dating a man would never work but I don't feel completely gay. Anyone is 100% gay or 100% straight. Keep that in mind.