So, am I really happy as I am? I'm 13, I have a boyfriend but I think I'm gay. "how can you think you're gay if you have a boyfriend?" Well the thing is I'm not happy with him but I just want to be with him because I don't want to hurt him. The thing is, when I hear people talking about their girlfriends I get so jealous because I want a girlfriend, not a boyfriend. Agh, what can I do??(-_-
Leave your boyfriend. You're not happy with him. And plus you're 13, he's probably 13, he'll probably just move on and pretend it never happen.
Okay, so its been a far few months. I'm now 14, i no longer have a boyfriend. I broke up with him about a week or so after posting this. I've had a online girlfriend and a irl girlfriend since then, and i wasn't happy with either. It could've been because it wasn't a public relationship and i wanted it to be public. Idk. Also I'm now struggling with my gender, but ill get to that another time! <3
Maybe you should give dating a break and try to figure yourself out a bit more? Perhaps it really depends on the person you want to be with, perhaps you really need to make a connection before dating them? What makes you interested in a person? Give it some time and thought.
