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i need some advice please

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by theyknow, Apr 28, 2015.

  1. theyknow

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    hello to you all out there.

    in my life there wasnt much love with other people ive never had a relationship and iam very insecure when it comes to feelings ...

    so i met that woman whom i fancyd for a year now,somehow we started talking at a party and met the other day just to talk and go on a walk.

    we met again the other day had a lot of fun she tells me how pretty she thinks i am alot.my eyes my mouth... she kisses me on the cheek grabs my hip when im next to her looks my in the eyes...

    i was sleeping at her house 2 times now
    im the one who starts the cuddling most of the time,sometimes she does and i got the feeling that she is somehow blocked a little bit. she told me she couldnt let love happen...

    sometimes she talks about some random women ,that sshe thinks look pretty... but i think shes got a different look on people ,she works with them in an arty way...

    i think she wanted to kiss me last time but i wa so shy, and she kept telling me how pbeautiful my mouth is...

    im sorry for this long text i just need some advice how to coninue without me exploding in drama and insecureness what do you think is she into me?


    thanks you a lot:confused:
     
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    It sounds like she likes you. That, or she's experimenting. Try talking to her about it - that shouldn't go wrong, so long as she's open-minded.
     
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    hello

    thank you for your answer. but what do you mean shes experimenting??
    can you explain ,please

    i really like her im not pushing,but i dont want her to get scared,or that she thinks i want a relationship as fast as possible

    ---------- Post added 28th Apr 2015 at 10:06 AM ----------

    but why does she talk about other women? is that a normal behaviour? or does it say something i dont get?
     
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    That is what I mean. She could be straight, but curious. She could be using you to check if she is really into women or not. That is not a bad thing, but it isn't always ideal to be in a relationship with someone like that. If they are coming to terms with their sexuality, things could be awkward.
     
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    well she already told me that shes lesbian
     
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    Ok. In that case, talk to her. Say how you feel. She sounds like she could be in a relationship, so why not just ask? Make sure before you get attached and stuff...