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I'm not sure what my gf is comfortable with

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by moth907, Apr 29, 2015.

  1. moth907

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    Okay so long story short I had a student exchange with a german school (german students stayed one week here, we stayed one week in Germany) and I met the cutest girl and on the second day of the exchange I already had a crush on her. Things escalated and on the night before they were gonna fly back home I confessed my feelings to her. Turns out she liked me too. I went to Germany a month later. I stayed at her place. During the week we got to know each other more and got closer. We also kissed for the first time that week (just lips). A week later I flew home.

    I'm planning on going to her place again in the summer. My problem here kind of is the fact that she is 2 years younger than me. I'm 15 and she is 13 but she is also on the 9th grade. It's because in grade school she was moved 2 classes up because she was so smart. Also I found out I got her first kiss. Because of that I am a bit worried because I want to give her french kisses but I'm not sure if she is ready?? I mean I haven't done it before either so I'm just as unexperienced as her, I just worry that she finds it intimidating and I don't want to make her feel uncomfortable.
    Any advice? Sorry for the super long and messy explanation.
     
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  2. mangotree

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    Why not talk to her, ask her questions and be honest with her?
     
  3. emma7

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    Ill'd just ask her i think its the best thing to do :slight_smile: