I had been friends with a guy for 9 years. Throughout that 9-year time period he always pursed me but I continuously rejected him. I finally admitted to myself (and to him) that I felt the same way about him as he did about me. My family & I are getting ready to go on a family vacation and I wanted to invite him down to hang with me for a while. My parents don't know we're dating (they've seem him on a video chat app), but don't know we're dating. I'd like (and no offense to anyone) for an adult to respond to this and someone with experience. I plan on telling them tonight so I need a reply ASAP! I'm on EST!