Well I just told my sister one of the biggest secrets in my life. She stood by me and said "If you killed someone I would ask you what do you need me to do?" I mean I would never do that but I get that she loves me. (!)(!)(!) I've let out being agnostic and she said she's cool with it but keep it a secret from my parents. I mean if I have to keep that a secret me being gay is even harder, I then put off telling her at lest en-till she comes back from china.