side note: this may be kinda long (sorry) my birthday was two weeks ago, i had a big birthday bash to celebrate and invited all of my friends. We all hit the dance floor having a great time and everything was going well, a friend of mine who is pretty out about her sexuality was most certainly putting on her sexiest moves and gave me 3 consecutive lap dances, lets call her jenny for now (i grabbed her ass during the last one ). i was out of school on birthday vacation until tuesday, wednesday was a normal day for me and then came thursday. we had a special day at school full of fun and games, that morning i waited with my group of friends in the hall for the rest of our squad when jenny showed up, from what i remember, jenny gave me a long and intimate hug, over the course of the day we had shared many intimate hugs, held hands for a very long time, exchanged personal info, and flirted a lot. friday wasn't any different. this monday and she and i shared another long intimate hug (I'm serious she won't let go), she walked me to my class, we held hands some more, i even escorted her to her car and every time we have to depart we hold hands and let them slowly drift apart. (now lets not get started to when we shared an umbrella in the rain!!) today we did more hand holding and she shouts my name out loud wherever we are and puts at least on of her arms around my waist. it appears i have very much caught the feels for her. HERES THE THING: she's not necessarily a tease but she's buggy with other girls too, but not like she is with me, she did today come onto another one of my straight friends but she's never held hands or cuddled or let any of my friends fall asleep on them or eat their food. the squad has been noticing this treatment and thinks she's just 'spreading her scent' like she does but its never lasted this long before. i really want an outside opinion i really like her but i can't tell anymore what the difference is between a flirt and real feelings.
I would give it a little more time. From how you've described her, it sounds like if she is interested, she will eventually make a move.
A fix that avoids reading into other people's actions is just asking her. You don't have to make it serious and blunt, you can bring it up other ways. For example, next time something flirtatious happens, point it out and ask what it means. Sentences like "Jenny, we're holding hands.. What does this mean for you?" or "Jenny, how would you describe our relationship?" take some courage to say but it will help clear things up.
It sounds like she's into you but if you wanted to be sure, wait a week. A week never hurt anyone and if she keeps hinting around to you go get your girl! Those sound like hints reserved for you but does she know you're feeling her too is the real question... You have do let that known. Next time you grab her hand first, randomly tell her she's beautiful and if you got the green light sign, lean in for a kiss! Remember you guys are friends so try not to let that ruin you're relationship... Good luck!
