So there is this guy, I don't know if he's gay or not . I have huge crush on him and lately he has been all I can think about and it's ruining my life. I can't work, and I'm getting slowly mad because of it. That's why I want to tell him about how I feel but idk if it's a good idea. He is a great guy and I don't want to ruin our friendship but if I don't tell him or do something about it, it just gonna get worse and I really don't want that. Someone help me please. :help:
if you are getting too stressed out by it either find out more facts … or cool off him a bit can you just spend more time to get to know him then you may find out more about his attitudes you may even find he is straight.. and then at least you will know or that he is gay or bi then at least you will know what you are dealing with
It's more like I'm depressed because I'm keeping all those feeling inside. I know him well enough, but because of my feelings for him I can't think clearly about his sexuality. If he refuses me, I can live with that at least I can move on. All I need is to get all those feelings of my chest. I just don't know how or what to say.
You should consider coming out to him first. It will be less awkward than saying you have a crush on him, also.
I actually think just saying straight out that he likes him is less awkward (and muchhhhhhhhhh less stressful since he would otherwise have to build up his courage twice).
Yeah, I have to do it al at once. But more I think about more nervous and unsure I'm getting. But I have to do it. Anyway thanks for all your replies, I really appreciate it.
Small update: I still haven't told him but we are getting very close during this week. Things are going surprisingly well, we're texting everyday, he is calling me cute names, is very touchy with me.Best thing is he's only like that with me. He even invited me over to his house(i could't go :/ ), when we were talking about what we could do there, he said something like "you could get something more"(to me it sounded sexual). To me it feels like he wants something more but I'm sceptic about it. Well, tommorow he's going to my place so I try to tell him. Hope, things go well because it looks promising.
