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Wanted to kiss my friend. Should I tell her?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by bubbles123, Jun 1, 2015.

  1. bubbles123

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    So first some background info:
    I've told my friend I'm questioning. She's a girl and bisexual. I'm pretty close to her and we're often very huggy around each other. I thought I liked her for a little while but this was really because I was curious and I don't actually like her or anyone and I've told her before I don't think I could really like anyone, at least not now. She's also not the type of person to have many crushes
    I've been more flirty with her lately. I don't really know why. But recently I got a hint she might like me, but I really don't know for sure.

    Anyway, we were dancing during a slow dance together during a school dance and I had my arms around her neck and we were really close and it just felt so...like...hot, I guess. I was just really excited by being so close to her, especially when she rested her forehead against mine and I actually felt like kissing her. Again, I don't have feelings for her. But I've never really felt like this before (except a tiny bit, but it was with her).

    I don't want to confuse her, especially since she may like me (but I don't know if she does), but there's a part of me that really wants to tell her and honestly I wouldn't mind kissing her if she ever wanted to in a just for fun kind of way. Would it be a bad idea to tell her just on a whim even though I don't really have a good reason for telling her? (I'd explain I don't have feelings for anyone as I told her before, I just felt like kissing her) Or would it be better to just play it safe and not?
     
  2. Fallingdown7

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    Well, I would take things really slow when it comes to hinting (as in not be too direct). However, if she does like you this would not be a good idea as her feelings would end up being played with. If she's interested in casual experimenting, then you should go for it, but see where her feelings are first.
     
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    Thank you so much! This advice is really helpful.