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How to ask her?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by swimmergirl, Jun 8, 2015.

  1. swimmergirl

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    There's a girl at my school who's been my best friend since 4th grade. Now were in seventh grade and i'm openly a lesbian and shes only out to a few people as bi. But now that some of our friends know that I like her, they're all saying I should ask her out. I'm worried she'll say no but even so, I need a way to ask her out.

    I've been considering texting her or just giving her a note, because I'd be too nervous to ask her, face-to-face. I have some ideas like a riddle, or a poem, but I'm not good at stuff like this. I need a way to ask her that lets her know that no matter what she wants is OK, even if the relationship is kept a secret, and also tells her that I'd never hurt her. Any suggestions are appreciated.
     
  2. silkyprince

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    I think a nice note explaining how you feel will do. Write it in a pen in your favorite color, maybe add some doodles or stickers. Anything to make it your own. I think if it comes from the heart, it's the best (no matter how cheesy that sounds, haha).