A heart broken rant more then anything

Did you ever meet him in person? Almost sounds like a catfish to me.

 

The fact that there is literally nobody that could be talking about you on that app means either 1) he's lying about that as an excuse for not wanting to be your friend anymore (for whatever reason) or 2) he'd rather listen to and believe things that aren't true over anything you, the actual person, might have to say.

Neither of these things puts him in a great light. If he has trust issues that might explain believing others over you, but then if that were true he might be more trouble than he's worth (if he's always going to be suspicious or jealous, that's just a lot of unnecessary tension for a relationship). If he's lying to get out of being friends then... well, lying is never a good thing.

He's already asked you not to contact him again. As hard as it might be I would try to honor that.

On the other hand, if I were in the same situation, and felt I absolutely had to say one last thing, it would be this (because f*ck rumors): "If you think I'm anything other than a good honest person, then that's your mistake to make. I thought you were a good person too because your actions told me so. If there's any doubt now it's because of the way you've treated me and NOT because of what someone else said."

But that's just me.

 

I totally get this. I'm in a situation right now with someone I should probably stop considering a friend because... well, despite what he says he doesn't really behave like a friend. It's my fault, I contacted him after a long time of neither of us communicating, but I needed someone to talk to and the connection we had in the past made me ignore my gut instinct of just leaving him alone. I kinda wish he said something like your friend did, that would make it easier to be all "wtf man?" but instead he just doesn't respond anymore. I guess I'd rather have the finality of being told the friendship is over than the sting of just being ignored.

 

Crazy and painful indeed. I didn't want to think years and years of friendship could be thrown away like that but... oh well.

Luck to you as well.

 

I've been through this situation! Met a guy on a dating app, however my profile came up on his and he was curious! We got talking, made it clear he was straight and i was confused, but into lads! he said he was 'cool'. Exchanged social media accounts, text each other daily! Stop speaking for 3 days and he un-friended me on everything! He was also perfect, and i had fell in love so it hurt like crazy!

I messaged him several times to get no reply, i even called him up and said whats your problem for him to put the phone down. Believe me i know it sucks, and at time i felt like a stalker with how much i was messaging him just to find out what the issue was but it honestly does get easier and better! Probably thinking 'easy to say' but i have been through it, take each day as it comes and you soon begin to forget them! I'm over my friend, i hope we never speak again because I've come to realise it's his loss! I miss him yeah, but it is what it is!

If your friend can believe what other people are saying, then he doesn't sound like a nice guy to be around! If this guy has trust issues, and you were there to support him and for him to confide in to, then he has lost a good friend because i don't think you've done anything wrong, and you never feel as though u have!

 

yeah it completely sucks! the time you spend apart, you miss every little thing! I do hope you guys manage to sort it out, or he comes round because you haven't actually done anything wrong!