So for the past year I've been living in a flat with a few others. Two are in a relationship and are moving to their own place. And I think I have feelings for the girl in the relationship. Sure, she can be a bit inconsiderate at times (for example, I washed all their dishes the other day and neither of them thanked me, never mind acknowledge that all their dishes were now clean), and there've been times we've not gotten on well. I didn't socialise much with them over the year. I know I can't be with her even if I definitely wanted to, but I'm scared I'll think about her if I go out with someone else. There's something about her that makes her so different from other girls I've met. And she's attractive too. What should I do?
I'm not good at this stuff, but maybe you could try to think about what it is you like about her and maybe then you could see that in others and realize there's plenty of fish in the sea? (it that made zero sense, do feel free to ignore)
