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How to tell my daughter

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by penta, Jun 29, 2015.

  1. penta

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    Gender:
    Female (trans*)
    Gender Pronoun:
    She
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
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    Out to everyone
    so i have decided that i need to talk to my daughter about me going into the full transition.
    The only problem is, how am i going to explain it to her since she is just six years old...

    She comes over every other weekend and she knows i'm feeling like a girl already (she figured it out partly by herself) but i have to tell her now that i am going to be a woman all the way and that i will still be her parent just not her "daddy" anymore..
    I already told her she can call me by my name instead of dad but she is just to much attached to saying dad...

    any advise??
     
  2. BlueLion

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    You have mentioned that she already understands that you feel like a woman, so a little part of the job is done. I haven't experienced a situation like yours, so I'm not probably the proper person to give you advice. Anyhow, you could try to explain her in a simple and a natural way that you need to go into the transition in order to be happy and be yourself, and that a lot of people go through the same process.

    She is just six, as you said. But I think maybe at an early age is easier to accept it. I mean that children (especially the little ones) tend to have less prejudices than adults. Therefore, that could be a point in your favour.

    I hope everything goes well. Good luck! (*hug*)