I spoke about a girl I had been seeing in the past on my previous posts and now I am back. After all that, I stopped interacting with her because I felt it was becoming too difficult and lost all contact. At this point I hadn't even talked to her at work and if she happened to be around me while I was talking to someone I wouldn't include her and or if she tried to talk I would leave. I just felt upset by her and felt why should I try when she has never. I stopped talking to her for over a month. Now fourth of July hits. I am getting in the mode of getting over the situation, but still thought about her. My counselor asked me what I would do if she ended up trying to get back in contact with me. I said I wasn't sure and then it happened. She texted me on fourth of July. She just wished me a great fourth of july and then once I said thanks you too, she added that she was sorry for all she had done and that she saw me as a great friend. I told a few people in my family and or a friend and they said don't do it. The thing is I am not saying I am going to go hang out with her, hugging etc. No, when I said about if I should hang out with her I said it in regards to the future. If we can start again since she apologized for her behavior....something no one has ever done. At first I thought she had a motive but she did say in the past that she hated not seeing me anymore, thing is why did she play the I am busy when she missed me. Also what would you do???? Should her apology atleast allow me to try with her even if I have to be cautious in the beginning...... I know she enjoys hanging out with me or did she said it prior especially being around my family....
