Scared Of Actually Being In A Realtionship If It Happens In The Future

I am truly sorry to tell you that I am not sure on how to help you for I don't have much (really any) experience with relationships myself.
But maybe it would help you to think positive? Luckily I have lots of other problems that distract me from thinking about excatly that thing.
But maybe it will help you if you think about the reasons of your fear. You are scared to be rejected?
That's totally natural while never a very nice feeling.
You seem to be a very open minded person, which is a really great charactertrade. You should think better about yourself. In the end you aren't scared of dating but about failing a relationship, maybe due to your looks or some behaviour or something most likely absolutely ridiculous.
But this can also be a positive aspect, for as long as you care about the way the other person feels abou you, you can not completly fail a relafionship on your own.

I hope this helped at least somewhat and good luck (*hug*)

 

Hey. I'm in a very similar situation right now myself. I haven't figured out how to get over this fear yet, but I've been thinking about it a lot lately. I think (for me at least) the reason I'm afraid of relationships is because being vulnerable with someone scares me. I watched these videos recently that kind of helped me at least understand this fear more:
https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=1&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=0CCAQ3ywwAGoVChMIr429tqGJxwIVgUo-Ch3FBADR&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.ted.com%2Ftalks%2Fbrene_brown_on_vulnerability%3Flanguage%3Den&ei=O3S9Ve-DGIGV-QHFiYCIDQ&usg=AFQjCNFLOgIJmTUe-QltELWMYsqIFtZkBw&bvm=bv.99261572,d.cWw

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=1&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=0CB4QtwIwAGoVChMI08SriaKJxwIVCTY-Ch1S0Qcb&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.youtube.com%2Fwatch%3Fv%3D_UoMXF73j0c&ei=6XS9VZOsCons-AHSop_YAQ&usg=AFQjCNHgqRfpxvLzhbYj_wdab2ZlFYG3nQ&bvm=bv.99261572,d.cWw

I hope this helps. Anyway, if you want, maybe we could chat and figure this out together? Best of luck(*hug*)

 

I know how you feel! I was thinking the same thing about myself when I saw your post. Unfortunately I don't have much advice, but I wish you the best of luck!

 

Yeah I actually feel the same but with the added fear that the girl/boy I end up with ends up changing me in a way I don't like.