My dad has always had a problem with gays he often says homophobic jokes and slurs . he thinks I'm st8 and he would often act like a jerk with his friends he a lot of times trys to get me to agree with him but all of the sudden he doesn't do that anymore and he often would challenge me on everything including things we have agreed on before . he also don't let me hang out with my friends any more. I don't know what he thinks and I'm scared of what he might do if he can prove I'm gay help
... I guess asking him is out of the question? Is there anyone else who knows both of you who could be able to shed some light on the situation(s)?