I'm pretty worried about this because I have a shitty personality. My looks are still okay, but that's pretty much all I have.
Oh, sporn. I doubt you have a shitty personality. I wouldn't say so, from your posts here. You have anxiety, yes, but a shitty personality? Not in my book. But, please, allow me to reassure you... Women can be as shallow as anyone. A relationship is often built on both physical and emotional connection. There is someone out there (several someones, in fact) who will be attracted to your looks and your personality.
I'm crazy(a lot of people complain about crazy exes), I go on about the same topics even though it's obvious everyone is bored, I'm lazy, I get stressed out easily, I'm horrible at small talk, I'm not sure about my sexuality and I'm kind of vain and shallow.
I'm crazy, I tend to talk about the same shit, I'm kinda lazy, I get stressed easily, strong talk isn't my strongest suit, I'm a little vain... However, I have not had too many problems attracting people to me. You just need to put your best foot forward and show your good qualities (I'm sure you have plenty).
That's not being a shitty person. Those are flaws, Sporn and we all have them! I'm the same as you but I don't consider myself a shitty person and neither should you