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Is this normal or am i easily freaked?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Erica101, Aug 18, 2015.

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  1. Erica101

    Erica101
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    After accepting that i'm gay at the start of the year I signed up to a couple of dating websites, been talking to a girl who seems nice, but I'm still not too sure yet. We've never met and have only been exchanging text messages however if my texts are too short she gets pissed and she keeps referring to me as 'her girl'. I don't know how i feel about her yet, but its really putting me off. I've never had a relationship so I don't know if this is considered normal.

    Whats the best way to cool things off with her? I feel based on how she's been since we've been texting she'd be the type to fly of the handle if i didn't text back! :bang:
     
    #1 Erica101, Aug 18, 2015
  2. Sek

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    Your fears are valid because, after all, you're looking for someone to connect with on a deep level. Possessiveness is something that pushes some people away. If you aren't getting a good vibe from her, it's probably best to just move on. See this gut feeling as a red flag.
     
    #2 Sek, Aug 18, 2015
  3. EastCoastGrl

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    No, this is not normal. She is being way too demanding, when you don't even know her.

    If I were you, I'd cool contact and move on. Be careful.
     
    #3 EastCoastGrl, Aug 18, 2015
  4. Erica101

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    Thanks both! This ones gonna be hard to get rid off i feel! :s
     
    #4 Erica101, Aug 18, 2015
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