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My First Date Plan!

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Andstillimhere7, Aug 20, 2015.

  1. Andstillimhere7

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    Okay so I asked this guy out today and he said yes, if he's not busy, and I'm like :jawdrop: wait, what? I honestly thought he would be busy or not interested. I still can't get that over that in my head. So now I have a date in two weeks and I'm like going to build some social skills.

    Although I avoided him for the rest of the day because I felt so awkward asking him out. I told him if he wanted to go on a dinner date and I was so timid and so awkward and he was like all yeah and later I avoid eye contact and kept talking. but anyways I have my first date with the same-sex hooray. Now he did say he'll have to see if he's not busy but I hope he is free :eusa_pray:.

    Can I have some dating tips if you want to offer some.
     
  2. SemiCharmedLife

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    Just try and relax, first and foremost. Ask lots of questions and show interest in him. But most importantly, just relax. I know you'll be nervous but so will he. So don't get too caught up in the nerves or the "ok what now?" and go with the flow.
     
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    What SemiCharmedLife said, 100%. Let the conversation flow naturally, and try to be yourself as much as you can be. I hope it goes really well! :grin:
     
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    Use protection!(!)