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Tired of fantasy, want something real.

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Chromedome, Aug 30, 2015.

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  1. Chromedome

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    Have you reached or passed the point where you just don't wanna see love, intimacy or sex by other people? I'm talking about TV, movies, books, music and porn. I want to experience it myself. I feel like I'm at the breaking where I'll just go crazy slutty or something.:help:
     
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    I was just thinking this morning on the way to work that I'm a bit sick and tired of hearing love songs.
     
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  3. Storm Chaser

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    Oh yeah definitely. My friends love pretty little liars and I tried to get into it but seeing how these two girls had a real relationship just hurt too much and I couldn't deal with it. Sometimes I also see a bunch of pda at school and it's like no stap it's school. Or on a specific day there just happens to be a bunch of lovey dovy commercials and it's just so annoying
     
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    Sometimes I imagine what it would be like to actually be in the moment having sex, and usually I end up blushing out of awkwardness, and I'm typically glad that it won't happen for a while. Don't get me wrong, I wouldn't mind having sex when I'm ready, but if I was forced to do it any time soon I would probably just find it very awkward and uncomfortable.
     
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    Everyone's been there. Unfortunately, I still am. I guess we just all want to be loved. And we all deserve it. I would be happy if I knew someone liked me even. Even if we couldn't get together, it'd be nice to have that feeling of being wanted.
     
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    Yeah fantasies can really lose their magic when they don't get translated into reality or anything closer to that.. I feel you totally
     
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    I feel you guys, one of the perks of being us ☺
     
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    @Chromedome

    Hey there buddy. I totally feel what you are saying. I couldn't relate to this during my younger days where everything about me spells passionate, emotional, compulsive, even delusional with all the gay standards that's being displayed out there. But these days, although I don't necessarily 'feel gay' anymore, I do get tired/ fed-up with all the sex and intimacy that has been continually bombarding the media, be it gay or straight.

    Sometimes I do asked myself where are the good-old, reliable bro-mance show, which isn't 90% about explicit sex and romance with other female/male character(s) all the time? (Thumbs up for Kingsman: The Secret Service)

    Unfortunately, these are the times that we are living in, with majority being caught up with what the media mass decides to feed them, be they gay or straight population. But there it is.

    That being said, I hope you will find your soul mate some day bruv :wink:

    Lots of love

    Ben
     
    #8 Ben369, Aug 31, 2015
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