Bear with me on this one it might take a while... so last week i was asked out by another guy, great :icon_bigg but and i know it sounds kinda stupid, he wants me to cuddle and snuggle him so basically im the person who protects him. the thing is i want to be the one whos protected and looked after :icon_redf we have been out a couple of times so far and it seems to be working apart from a few things: i didnt think i really felt anything when we kissed. we kissed a few times and i pulled away because it was wierd. (btw he is quite feminine-hes got a girly voice) it felt wierd to be kissing a girly guy his breath wasnt bad but it kinda put me off he tries to kiss me on the cheek and jokingly begs me to hold him. he has made eye contact with me to kiss and it feels really wierd. hes trying to be dominant but it feels wrong when its a girly guy he has invited me to stay over for a night with him home alone and im pretty sure some things will happen. im looking forward to the 'stuff' but otherwise im worried it will feel awkward so should i end it with him before we do stuff :***: I still feel alone when with him sorry this is a bit confusing but i could really do with the help ive been thinking about it for a few days now but im really confused and isolated. any advice is appreciated P.S i dont mean girly guy in a dorogatory way (no offence intended)
Tell him you think it feels awkward. Don't be afraid to say the truth. If it's not a good relationship, he will hopefully understand. Don't make yourself uncomfortable.
