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Long distance dating. Need some advice.

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by StartANewLifE, Sep 6, 2015.

  1. StartANewLifE

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    Dear whoever who'll read this,

    Good day. I have a question that's been floating in my mind for the past few months, weeks, days, hours, minutes,seconds:

    Should I still pursue this?

    Should I still pursue this?

    I'm currently dating a guy. We've known each other for a month and a week now. We go out on a date once every two weeks and as of now we have dated three times.

    The thing is, those days in between our dates are dreadful. He rarely messages me. I get that he's busy as he's already working compared to me who's still studying, but can he still at least have a time to text me? I feel like I'm the only one making the effort for us to communicate. I am often the one who messages him first and it's starting to wear me out.

    We're on a long distance dating situation in which communication is crucial. And if we're still on this stage, and that's how he behaves - like I'm the only one interested - should I still pursue it?

    We had good times during the dates though, but ugh, those days in between are difficult to go through. It's like I am so high and happy during the dates but after that bam! Back to zero.

    I am confused as heck. It's becoming a ride of lowest lows and highest highs. I really like the guy but he's slowly turning me off.

    Should I?

    Should I ask him what he's really up to?

    Yours sincerely,
    StartANewLifE
    Sorry for this long post...
     
  2. Aspen

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    Is it possible that he's just really bad at texting? What about other ways to communicate, like phone calls or Skype or Facebook?