My crush is gay but i am closeted Hey guys, I am a closeted gay guy in high school and lately have feelings towards this guy that i know 95% is gay. We have been kinda flirting lately and i dont wanna out myself yet, i am not feeling ready, i just dont know what will i say if he asks out, because hes so cute and eveything but i am not sure if a person would even worth for me to ever come out.
Try weighing the pros and cons against each other. Make a list - if he were to ask you out, what would be the good things about saying yes, and what would be the bad things? And then, on the other hand, what would be the good things about saying no, and what would be the bad things? If you're not ready, then you're not ready, and that's okay. But, if you think you could give it a shot, then it might be good for you to put yourself out there.
Yeah, of course i thought of both answer's outcomes. That if I say yes, good thing, i would have someone i love; bad thing, COMİNG OUT. Yes, of course I can ask him to have secret relationship theoritically, but it would paranoid both of us and i would have to act more. If I say no, well not coming out, but turning down someone I have feeligs to. So logically no, emotionally yes
