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What to do?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Andstillimhere7, Sep 22, 2015.

  1. Andstillimhere7

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    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
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    All but family
    So there is this guy I have been crushing on for a year and I finally asked him out 5 weeks ago, but it still hasn't happen because he's been busy and we could never plan it. It still a thing but I don't know when. But lately he's been avoiding me or just not talking to me and it's like "do you like me or not?" I don't know if he's uninterested or just shy. I have anxiety and keep thinking he hates me or is just lying to me and all these lies to myself.

    But should I keep continuing with this guy?
    Should I talk to him about it? (or is it weird to do so?)
    Should I be patient?

    He is the only gay guy I know.
     
  2. Superconffused

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    Ok From what I gathered you asked him out and he said yes but yall haven't had any contact for 5 whole weeks and you guys do t talk? If you are truly going out you should be able to have a conversation about something bothering you. I think being patient is over it's been over a month. And I think you will know after the talk, if you do talk to him, whether or not you want to still be with this guy. Best of luck