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  1. Nero360

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    There is this guy I liked 2 years ago he still goes to my school and......I think he likes me. He would always joke around and somtimes take things too far. He is funny and cute. He has beautiful hazel eyes and wears the coolest clothes. :lol: Today when I got on the bus he sat next to me, as he was sitting there my heart was beating out of my chest!:icon_redf Then he takes my backpack*playing around* and wouldn't give it back. I didn't tell the bus driver, otherwise everybody's attention would be towards us.*everybody has own seats* then as I'm trying to take my backpack back he kisses my hand!:kiss:then laughs:lol:, then stares for few secs. My heart was on fire, I literally was about to faint.:eek: then gave my backpack back and went to his seat. :eusa_doh:hang on 1 sec:eusa_doh: This guy is always talking about girls yet he......wait:eusa_doh: I'm so confused right now!:bang:
     
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    RE: "help confused about this guy"

    The number one problem with being gay, the "are they straight" dilemma. All I can say is try to flirt. Make it subtle, see how he responds, than gradually make it a little less subtle. If he get's uncomfortable, pull back. If not! Whip it out and wave it around! ^)^ (Just joking, don't do that... it probably won't end well)
     
    #2 Lunarchy, Sep 23, 2015
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    Re: "help confused about this guy"

    Lol:lol:
     
    #3 Nero360, Sep 23, 2015
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    Re: Confusion!

    I don't think he's flirting. All guys like to play around (not like that 'play around') and joke with each other.
     
    #4 bookreader, Sep 26, 2015
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    awww man..............
     
    #5 Nero360, Oct 4, 2015
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    I feel guys wouldn't do this "kiss-hand" thing to each other unless they were really close friends and are comfortable with playing around with each other like that being comfortable with themselves (sexuality*). I've got a guy friend that messes around like that, playing about sexuality.

    So, maybe? If you're not like that close of a friend with him. Lunarchy had a good suggestion>
     
    #6 Ineedmywaifu, Oct 5, 2015
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    Thanks guys, i'll try flirting............... but is there a way i could do it without others noticing. Or a flirt that can mean two things. Maybe a mixed flirt idk.
     
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    Seems like he's into me idk. We have like staring sessions for like a few mins almost everyday. We smile and laugh. idk if i'm getting the signals wrong but.... this
     
    #8 Nero360, Oct 16, 2015
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    Are you guys friends? Do u hang out with each other out side of school? If not, i think itd be a good first step to exchange numbers and see if he wants to hang out some time. From there u can get to know him better with one on one convos without having to worry about others hearing your conversation.
     
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    Thanks. Sounds good i'll try really hard to do that. lol I will choke trying to do that. As I am socially awkward.
     
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    Well he obviously doesn't think that that type of behaviour is inappropriate (kissing your hand) because he did it to you. My advice would be to kind of follow his lead. When I have a crush on a guy, I normally do subtle things like lean on them, give a quick hug, play fight, that kind of thing. I then slowly build it up to become more flirtatious. I really hope this helps and good luck :slight_smile:
     
    #11 ArcheryDude44, Oct 17, 2015
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    Awww. I'm also like you. I have a crush on my officemate and I don't know he's straight or not. Haha. Does he have a girlfriend?
     
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    No he doesn't have a girlfriend. Also liam i like your idea will try.
     
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    *update* the constant staring is getting to a psychopathic level lol. And now he randomly does the eyebrow thingy.
     
    #14 Nero360, Oct 21, 2015
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    I both love and hate guys that do this, particularly guys where you don't know if they're gay or not. I wouldn't look too much into it if he was just playing, and wait till he sends more signals, but that is still so friggin' cute omg. I have a weakness for stuff like this, haha.
     
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    What are you doing about it? Have you tried talking or being more direct with him, and what happened? That's where you need to be going if you want to resolve the confusion.
     
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    I've noticed



    Nero if I was your situation I would just ask, it must be so annoying not knowing.
     
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    But i'm not out. If i said that its just like death sentence. But if there were someway to say it indirectly. like i don't even know right now.
     
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    Honest advice try leaving subtle hints to him. I literally tell my friend/crush everyday that I love him or something sexual and I pretty much know for a fact he knows something is up with me. So I know that will work cause I dont suspect this guy is dumb. Let us know to give us all hope lol!

    Best of luck!
     
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    Lolol, don't judge me, xD.

    Ah, so if you're not out yet, that can be a little problem. In that case, I would just play around and hint that you're interested. Who knows - you guys might be able to come out to each other.
     
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