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Out but not out

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Lost sole, Sep 29, 2015.

  1. Lost sole

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    Location:
    South Africa , Limpopo
    Gender:
    Male (trans*)
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Straight but curious
    Out Status:
    Some people
    Well when I started commin out de first ppl I told were my parents coz dey would not stop
    givin me de sex talk .......Well not de right kind . So i told em dat I am a Lesbian , it was so terifying . Supricingly dey both accepted me ........ So I thought . It has been a while now I would say things r normal but der is no normal . My dad seems to be cool with my sexuality , but unfortunately I cant say de same for my mom . I came out coz I wanted to be ....... Well me . The short hired pens loving n non dress wering me . Well dat n coz I did not want em to freak out when I introduced my gf . But my mom keeps critisizing eveythin I say , everythin I were ..... well everythin I do realy . She keeps insistin I were this do dat . N I simply cant take it anymore I barely talk to her about my personal stuff coz we simply dont agree . I cant even imagine her reaction when i tell her i want a tux for my prom next year ( If I even get to go ) . I dont expect her to be proud of her lesbian daughter ( She never has been y start now ) . All I want is for her to let me live my own lyf in peace without her tryin to control it . I know that I will make mistakes along de way but dat is an opportunity to learn n i wanna learn . De problem is I dont know how to tell her dat